Monday, June 30, 2014

30 June 2014: Monday ... Rosy-fingered dawn ... lost & found iPhone ... Hospice re-connect ... Jayne & Mike on FB ... Mill Creek return ...

As I filled the bird feeder to the delightful chirping of the birds, I felt a presence, an ambiance of glow and light and thought of the phrase that dad taught me, one of the ancient Greek phrases, an epithet, the "rosy-fingered dawn", from Homer's The Odysseyand which he would pronounce in the original language, which I forget now, regrettably. It was part of his final exam after 4 or 5 years of Greek at the Gymnasium Haganum in The Hague, all in the original Homeric version. It was tough, he said.  


Cannot believe what the "Smart Phone" era has brought to my life. It is bliss and bitchiness. Today, I was certain that I'd forgotten my phone when I got to the Y. Had no idea how I could have forgotten it as I had it on the ledge of the bookshelf as I leave through the front door. Well, did the exercise thing with Helena in Body Pump (recently returned from a Les Mills' training of several thousand in New Orleans where the founder, age 85, was present) and then the ever-effervescent Amy leading Body Combat afterward and came home expecting to find the phone. It was not where I thought and then I learned that Skeesha had been there early and I thought, against all reason, that she might have taken it. Called Hospice, they sent her a text to call, she got right back to me and said she had not seen it. I believed her wholeheartedly. So, for one last time, checked the care with mom's cell, which is still working, and phoned my iPhone and there came the ring in the car. The phone had slipped off the center and stuck to the side of the passenger seat. I had already sent e-mails to Credo telling them that I'd misplaced the phone and needed their assistance and tried to reach Verizon to continue service for mom's cell. All for naught and then the sense of relief. When will it end? I need to be more disciplined and write out a series of set-in-stone steps for leaving with the cell in the morning and never waver from it. Never! 

Just ran into Jayne Rizner on FB and sent her a friend request and sent an FYI to Susan, too. Her family pics are wonderful and Mike, who I also friended, looks as youthful as ever, but Davis Haskins, Nick's age, what height (he towers over Mike) and what a beard on that young man (a lot like Jay Mills'). The couple look very much still in love and I am so happy for them. Jayne is such a terrific person and incredibly free spirit. She is the epitome of the word "UNIQUE". There ain't any other like that spontaneous, funny person. What a laugh that engenders joy in others. 

Photo: Having already made her belly plunge and lapped up some water in the Mill Creek, Dancer ponders her next pathway.
Dancer after a dip in the Mill Creek behind and below Limestone
Acres -- it's a steep hillside down to the creek level and there's a
lot of brush between the path and the water. We found an opening
but there were thorns and unsteady rocks. 

Tammie Smith, a blast from my Hospice Care of Augusta volunteer stint, called today. So nice of her to touch base. I think she thought I was still in Augusta as she did not know about my parental care or the death of dad. She had an unhappy experience at HCA and is now much happier at a non-profit hospice care facility, but it was so good to hear from her. 

Great, scattered walk tonight, a little over an hour, starting on Pickwick to the steep hillside drop to the thickly wooded backdrop of Limestone Acres leading to the Mill Creek and then the pathway, unpeopled, along the the creek leading to Limestone and Milltown and then across the roadway to Old Milltown and then across Limestone to the Church and a mother/daughter (who I did not speak to but Dancer wanted to meet) tilling a good sized garden in the back of the Limestone Church, where the funeral of Jay Mills' mother was held going over 40 years ago (were we in elementary or junior high school?) and then past the shopping center and across the busy intersection and onto Cratchett, past the Melsons' home, and then onto Nicholby and home. A little over 3 miles.


Sunday, June 29, 2014

29 June 2014: Sunday ... Sun streaming through drapes ... apple juice & mandarin oranges ... call & FB messages reunite ... walk to lights of Delcastle ... a new phone calls out

First thought as I decide to get up is "apple juice for mom". She says it helps her be regular, to put it with a modicum of civility, and then I stretch, a bit, and move downstairs and decide, on a whim, to take the big clippers and remove dead limbs from the dogwood on the side. I don't reach all of them but I collect a pile of limp, lifeless tree appendages and then collect them for the yard waste container under the beautiful tree that I don't know the name of. 

Just back from an amazing service by Rev. Keith Goheen, a hospital minister in Lewes, Delaware, Beebe Hospital, I think, who is just a wonderful speaker and intellect. I will copy his memorable quotes (they're on my cell under the Notes icon) later in this blog, but I wanted to say that Lindsay inadvertently called while having lunch with Nick in Augusta at Nacho Mama's. She was in Augusta for the wedding of a friend yesterday and plans to leave today for Chattanooga with Alex, so she has some driving ahead of her. Nice to hear from her when I called her back. 

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Marina van Renssen tapes her daughter Kate Nolan as she
sang "All Of Me" by John Legend beautifully in today's service. 

Len Cummings called tonight from Colorado and he talked, pretty much non-stop, so he's good and he has a library nearby and he always amazes with his intellect. He'd love to have a car to get around but he's making it and he apparently has plenty of minutes on his phone, so I'll call him next time.

Received a wonderful FB message from Katia and I responded posthaste. It's a start to rebuilding our friendship and I welcomed her kind words.

Got the new phone working for mom and a few numbers entered and an e-mail out to family and friends with her new number. It's a new type of phone, not a cell phone, per se, but a cellular transmission line and less cost per month -- $20 for unlimited minutes. I think she'll get use to it. Now, to get the land line up and operating. 



A young boy on a bike with training wheels fell over as I approached with Dancer and the father quickly went to his aid and asked whether he was alright. His immediate response: "I caught a firefly." Now, that was a quick riposte to an embarrassing incident. I was impressed and quite amused.

Over a 3-mile walk from home to Delcastle Recreation Area and a dip in the narrow stream and then off leash to try to get a decent fill-flash photo with the iPhone. This was the 4th attempt and it worked to a degree. 

Saturday, June 28, 2014

28 June 2014: Saturday ... such a glorious day ... it's not Domingo, no Body Pump at 11:15 ... elliptical ... HR averages 104 ... Vermont discussion ... yoga/vocal e-mail ... Lakeside HS teacher on FB ...

27 June 2014: Friday ... racquetball w/two Chrises, St. Mark's Coach at Central Y ... appt. w/Steve McDermott ... Beethoven's 9th at the Mann Music Center ... call to Vermont around Sheridan Square


It's not a good photo but the moment was great! The human/spiritual uplift of the conclusion of Beethoven's Choral Symphony, his 9th and last, a towering testament to creativity and universal love, made the night lustrous. The entire audience at the Mann Music Center in Fairmount Park stood to applaud the musicians and vocalists of the Philadelphia Orchestra, The Choral Arts Society of Washington, and Wolf Trap Opera Artists. The superb conductor was Bramwell Tovey. Just an extraordinary and gorgeous evening. — with Linda Lucero at The Mann Center for the Performing Arts.

The morning began at the Central Y where Chris, bought me a coffee across the street and a trim young man did stretching in a alleyway beside the Y as we entered. I mulled my racquet choice but we were on time for our 10 a.m. schedule court date on #1 and played several games before Chris invited another Chris, a football player, muscular and fit, another Chris, and his former HS football coach at St. Mark's, Lee, or "Coach" as I called him, to play doubles. The Coach and I hooked up and we fared poorly due to my rather casual and suburban play, which did not please him (he had a competitive though fair spirit), but we had a good time and I appreciated my next door neighbor reaching out to strangers. As much as I like meeting new people, I would have begged off on that request. It did not deter Mr. Senge, who again, defeated me all games, but I am enjoying the game, It's a lot of fun and makes me miss tennis (just noticed the racket in my room clothes' closet and had the urge to play).

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

24 June 2014: Tuesday ... Core Challenge w/Maria (Pamela still in Ohio, I think?) ... Mom's exquisite letter to NV ... great yoga (a hand squeeze from Christina) ... Anne Dunlap in the corridor ...

Jul 11
6-9 pm
Chadds Ford, PA
Brandywine River Museum of Art
Jul 27
7 - 10 pm
Newark, DE
Homegrown Cafe
Sep 14
2-5 pm
Pennington, NJ
Hopewell Valley Vineyards
Sep 28
7 - 10 pm
Newark, DE
Homegrown Cafe
Oct 19
2 pm
Chadds Ford, PA
Brandywine River Museum of Art

The performing schedule, above, of Catherine Marie Charlton, a member of UUSMC and a very creative composer, pianist and improviser, who has a real Web presence with her work, especially at the Brandywine River Museum and her work with the Wyeth estate. She is truly gifted. We need to get her to perform on a Sunday, wonder why Kristen has not encouraged her to perform for the congregation?


Dancer didn't notice her possible prey down the gravel path.  




Susan Siepmann Greco commenting on my serendipitous (aka, random event) discovery of three deer during my walk this evening around Carousel Park, where I parked, for the first time, in the lot where the faux western town is located and where the stables for the New Castle County mounted patrol are. 


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  • Rudy Nyhoff Eureka Susan!  It is extraordinarily nice, in fact, it is the essence of happiness and serendipity. Each day is a collection of random events.

Monday, June 23, 2014

23 June 2014: Monday ... 6 a.m. Body Pump (sole male) ... H&B plumbing (Nate) ... financial appt Steve McDermott ... **Tim Gibbs**, 55, Ex. Dir. Delaware Academy of Medicine call ...

Just completed a revelatory, wonderful phone call from Tim Gibbs, Ex. Director of the Delaware Academy of Medicine and now, as of November 2013, the Delaware Public Health Association, as the two have merged. 

Sunday, June 22, 2014

22 June 2014: Sunday ... High Clouds, Brilliant Sun Thru Window Shades ... TED Radio Hour on iPhone ... breakfast at a packed Crossroads ... lunch @ Hartefeld ... Doug leaves minutes after 3 p.m. for 7 p.m. flight

It's the GUY Radio Hour, I'm Ted Roz. (I found that spoonerism amusing this morning.)

MOM HAS TAKEN HER OWN SHOWER this morning (Hallelujah!). She also made her bed and folded clothes from a dryer load I placed their prior to her shower, but she has a "kink" in her back. Think she feels good about her accomplishment, though. 


"It's not what you look at that matters, it's what you see."  ~ Henry David Thoreau 

I saw an elderly couple, similar in perspective (they looked alike), stoic, seated in a booth at Crossroads Restaurant this morning as Doug and I ordered our breakfast (Doug waffles and assorted pork sides, moi a broccoli scramble). Unspeaking, they turned to leave at the same time and got up from their seats, at the same time, and then, she smiled, which broke the frieze.


Hartefeld National, a premier Avondale golf club, features 18 challenging golf holes
designed by renowned architect Tom Fazio.

Great walk today with Dancer at Carousel, almost all off leash, we walked exactly 3.0 miles when we got back to the car, the lone one in the parking lot for Bark Park off Skyline Drive. Where was everybody? Watching Team USA tie Portugal, 2-2. The game was over when I began my walk -- Portugal tied it, literally, in the last seconds of the game on a cross and header (a beautiful goal) -- so USA now has 4 points and missed an opportunity to head straight into the Round of 16 and eliminate Portugal. But back to the reason for this cutline, our walk. It was wonderful and different, a trail that took me through the woods and back out onto a walk leading over the bridge, where Dancer plopped down and drank (I caught a photo of

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Saturday, June 21, 2014

21 June 2014: Saturday ... Summer Solstice (longest day) ... Breakfast @ Crossroads (my treat) ... Walk w/Doug & Dancer Paper Mill Park ... dinner at the Back Burner (a dad favorite)

The morning starts on the stoop with Dancer, hugging her, and listening to the subtle cacophony of bird communication. It's lovely and the road sounds from Limestone are less in the early hours of this Saturday morn. I want to identify the birds but cannot. Listen for the cat's sound, a marker for the presumed "catbird" with the black Mohawk patch atop its prehistoric head (I saw it this Sun morning outside the kitchen window, perhaps I should spread bird seed on the roof like dad did for years). 

We took a walk, together (Doug, Dancer and I) through the woods located along Middle Run Creek which runs beside Paper Mill Park, about 1.5 miles over a mountain bike trail with considerable ups and downs. And Doug enjoyed it even as we had to avoid the plenitude of Canadian geese doo-doo on the walkway around the park's perimeter. There was a child's birthday party going on with an inflatable jumping tent beside the eating covered area. 


Get a sneak peak of our new shop at "A New Nite Downtown" until 9 pm. We are in front of 58 E Main Street. 

A gentle suggestion from Gordon Roth "TO GET A MTB".

newarkbikeproject.org 

136 South Main Street, Newark, DE 19711 | Promoting bicycling to the community of Newark, Delaware,
two wheels at a time.

Back Burner Restaurant in Hockessin where we had dinner tonight.

I had two Heinekens (my limit) during the meal, in honor of dad, who was not a beer drinker but a dry (wave the Vermouth cap over the gin) martini enjoyer, that I shared with Doug last evening in the above restaurant, a favorite of dad's. 


Friday, June 20, 2014

20 June 2014: Friday ... A Gorgeous Day ... Sherry subbed for Pamela ... Home Depot for Draino & kitchen bags ... Skeesha's arrival ... dinner at the Farmhouse

Photo of The Farmhouse at Loch Nairn


The Farmhouse Restaurant at Loch Nairn, a favorite haunt of ours on an irregular basis. Bruno, the waiter, was there (I'd forgotten his name, unfortunately) but did not serve us. Lisa served us, our waitress and at the end of our wonderful meal I'd promised to share some of my Old Fashioned Strawberry Shortcake but did not. I owe her. It was absolutely fantastically decadent (which was the name of Doug's chocolate dessert).

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Reading-glasses positioned prior to dinner. 

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Showing off pics from home in Georgia.

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Group selfie after dinner. 

Thursday, June 19, 2014

19 June 2014: Thursday ... HIIT w/Pamela and 10 others ... Doug arrives ... lunch at Anthony's Coal-Fired Pizza ... Home Depot (stuff for dining room ceiling) ... cello prodigy ... dinner @ McGlynn's, Della our server



Just a quick 20 minute HIIT workout to start the day today. By the end the number of
burpees I could complete dropped off, but it was a good burn all over.

My first HIIT workout this morning was a true challenge. Just about a dozen of us we had about six stations and we did intervals of 1 minute on, 15 sec. recovery, 45 secs on, 15 sec. recovery, and then 30 secs on, followed by a 1 minute recovery and then move to the next station. It was intense for just 30 minutes, especially the burpees, push up and then jump. 


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Sujari Britt, 11, cello prodigy ... communes with Elgar.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=18SJYcWCmWo&feature=share


Wednesday, June 18, 2014

18 June 2014: Wednesday ... 95 degrees today ... AC humming (set to 72) ... Dancer passed out in TV room ... Phillies sweep Atlanta in Georgia ... visit from Art Steele and Kimberly (we got pizza/fruit/cheesecake & salad for dinner) ...

Words from Kimberly Wright Burandt (Art Steele's significant other) after she accepted my FB friend request this evening, just a short time after I sent her a message and that selfsame query:

"I am so happy to have finally met you and Dancer! I met your parents years go and instantly fell in love. I'm just crazy about your mom. We laugh, we cry, we laugh some more. 
I missed your dad terribly today, Rudy. I know you and yours miss him every day."

I responded: '
You are so kind Kimberly ... thank you for such warm and wonderful comments about my parents. I'm certain mom is as crazy about you, in fact, I know it, from the moment she mentioned she knew you. I heard the love in her voice. We miss dad, too, as you have expressed so lovingly. 

Appreciate your words, beyond measure, and so such a quick response. That says A LOT, also. You are a special person. Art is so lucky to have you. All the best and have a great vacation, hope to see you soon."

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

17 June 2014: Tuesday ... three chimes & a universe (later yoga this am) ... met Joanne (friend of Ruth Ann), a dietitian (suggestions for mom) ... 2nd walk at Hercules CC ... Veronica, RN, mom's new charge nurse


Dancer taking off at the start of second walk at the abandoned Hercules Golf Course. We went about 2.5 miles and ventured into the area by the stream, which she waded into, and then a steep hill before having to turn back and retrace our steps. Dancer dragged a bit and seemed exhausted but she made it.

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Sunday, June 15, 2014

15 June 2014: Sunday ... well of replenishment ... emptying our lives ... Father's Day for the fatherless ... Nick from Bonaroo & Jack White ... walk along Pike Creek CC o'ergrown paths ...

Arrived at Church this morning right at 10:30 a.m. only to find that the choir was performing. I walked back behind the piano and sat next to Gordon. Did not have my music but I sang and it went surprisingly well. We did a piece, center stage that was mostly a cappella that was stunning in its beauty. Greg had to comment afterward and I spoke to Esther Steffens, who was familiar and appreciative of the composer (who I was unfamiliar with) but the melody was simple and utterly gorgeous in its composition, much like the Linz Symphony (which is on an entirely different exalted plain), composed in 4 days by Mozart. But the wonders of music, whether in the town of Linz well over 200 years ago or in a small UU congregation in the Pike Creek Valley is amazing in its reach and its breadth and its ability to move people. Nick felt the same way about the performer pictured below, who he saw at Bonaroo just the other evening. He told me about it today in his Father's Day call with such compelling passion. He truly loves music and it is so good to see that in him, passed from my father to me and now to him. Three generations.  


Nick's favorite performer, Jack White and his band, who he heard at Bonaroo (Nick's 4th visit to the iconic music festival in Manchester, Tennessee), and called it the best performance he'd ever seen by an artist. Two-and-a-half hours of nonstop playing, a fantastic guitarist who has a jazz mentality and plays freely with his band members, who surround him.


Where have all the mowers gone? Well, Pike Creek Golf Club is closed and now its cart path
provides a stellar walking trail through a beautiful landscape and a gurgling Pike Creek.

— with Dancer in Pike Creek Valley, DE.
Adult
Dancer's backyard roommate (yard mate, back mate?) appears to be a "Gray Catbird". It's a lovely creature but I have yet to identify its distinctive "catty mew" vocal sound. Stay tuned ... really. 

Got calls from Nick, first, from Bonaroo, where he'll see Elton John tonight and leave for home tomorrow, and then Lindsay later in the afternoon. 






Saturday, June 14, 2014

14 June 2014: Saturday ... afternoon workout on Expresso.net (9.5 miles in less than 35 minutes) ... Sarah from N. Georgia fitness employee ... walk into paradise w/Dancer at Bark Park ... Netherlands hoodie from Amazon and Lindsay ...


It's not W. Eugene Smith's kids walk into paradise but it's my canine
child's walk outside Bark Park and it works for me this early Saturday evening.


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A Father's Day gift from Lindsay via Amazon express. She texted me to see whether I'd received it.

Wednesday, June 11, 2014

11 June 2014: Wednesday ... Douglas Alan Nyhoff's 56th birthday ... early AM call nice ... Renee & Juli, consummate at their jobs, fitness instructor and RN ... Mom funny pics ... donation & note to Music School of Delaware, Kate Ransom, Pres. & CEO ...

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Photo Booth on the iPad is a lot of fun to play with and mom took these photos, one sent (left) to Doug and the other sent to Liz with a short note, "love you", typed out by mom.
It's starting to pour outside now as it approaches 11:30 p.m. and I hope Dancer is under the shed. She was yesterday when it poured cats and dogs in the afternoon as Nick Moretti waited for a friend to pick him up. It taps continuously on the roof in the TV room and the sound is not unpleasant but disconcerting because I wonder about Dancer.

Today is Doug's 56th birthday and we had a nice talk this early morning. He seemed at ease and it felt good to share with him on this day, his entrance onto this planet in Bridgeport Hospital in 1958. He was headed to work this morning and had a full day but his girls, Norma and Norma, planned a gathering this evening.

Had a strenuous Body Pump with Amy and an equally challenging Body Combat with Renee. Asking her afterward about a "zone" feeling during her workout, Renee said that she couldn't get too distracted from the routine because it requires focus but that the act of exercise made her a better person, a better mother and just made her feel great. I marvel at her concentration and the beauty of her execution and the verve of her fitness. On a different level and skill set, Juli, the PRN nurse for Hospice, came by for about the 3rd of 4th time and spent significant and meaningful time with Mom. She is so thorough and always has excellent suggestions after her history. She told me something remarkable about her interaction with dad -- I think she saw him just a few days before his passing -- and he made a confession to her about his own health state and how he missed the diagnosis and felt bad about it. She remembered telling him that we cannot diagnose ourselves, we are no good at it, we cover it up and cannot be honest about our condition. I found it an amazing declaration.

On a sad but necessary note, she mentioned the passing of her father about 5 weeks ago in the Compassion Wing of St. Francis Hospital. DE Hospice rents a floor dedicated to hospice care at St. Francis and that's where her 88-year-old father died after being there just a few days. I mentioned a touching obituary story of an individual on WBUR radio this morning where an 88-year-old cardiologist died. He'd gone into medicine to find out the cause of his mother's early death and went on to meeting his only girlfriend and wife for life -- they had 10 children -- and he'd take them on a vacation to the mountains and work as a doctor in a town that had had no doctor or medical care during this time. It was such a touching and wonderful story about a regular guy who led an extraordinary life and touched many with his dedication and skill.

dr-keevil

The Remembrance Project: Dr. Charles Keevil


"Dr. Charles Keevil died April 8, 2014, in Lincoln, Massachusetts. He was 88 years old, worked for 54 years in the same hospital, and, with his wife, had 10 children. During summer vacations, they packed various family configurations into a VW bus and drove to a coal-mining district of Appalachian Kentucky, where he volunteered in a hospital that had never seen a cardiologist."

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

10 June 2014: Tuesday ... meet Vinciann, Sharon in Core Challenge ... exercise next to Ruth Ann ... meet Angela ... stellar young man with Commerce Energy, Nick Moretti ...


Nick Moretti, 24, was representing this company, a buyer of energy and seller through the network owned by Delmarva, a complicated setup where a monopoly was averted and there are a number of suppliers but only one company with the infrastructure to distribute said energy. I signed up for Commerce and they promise a set amount, which I need to call when I get my letter from Delmarva to lock in that price for five years. It is also "green energy" and does not, according to Nick, produce any global warming carbon in its production, that means solar and wind (I think). 

Sunday, June 8, 2014

8 June 2014: Sunday ... 6 mos. anniversary of dad's death ... Katia situation ... UUSMC Choir gathering ... actual Match activity ...


I want to say something profound. I have mulled it over for days but seem to fall back on the change of seasons - the view from our front door - for six months ago, as my father spent his last morning on earth in this room where I type this status, it was snowing, beautifully but menacingly for drivers (dad was not fond of snow). Today, rather than a subfreezing temperature, sunny with a high the 80s. Time, indeed, does move forward. Enough said.

On this sixth-month anniversary of the passing of Rudolph Nyhoff, M.D., a note of recollection and love at the time we shared together.
 — in Cochranville, PA.
  • Fay Lyon Verburg Love this picture, Rudy.
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  • Rudy Nyhoff It was a grabber Fay and he was totally unaware of the antics of the horse. I love the pic, too. Thanks for the note. 
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  • Susan Manubay Brawner Love his smile. Thinking of you.
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  • Patricia McGowan Krysiak Fabulous photo; fabulous man!
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  • Larry Tomsic Great photo and thanks for sharing your thoughts. RIP Dr Nyhoff.
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  • Skinner Graham He was a great friend to me, and such wonderful company. Love the photo
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  • Lori Jones Yes Rudy, time does go by quickly. I love this picture xo
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  • Carol Seay Witzell What a wonderful photo, Rudy! Also loved your vignette about your father. It's been 7 years for my sister's and brother and me since our parent's deaths...they died 8 very short weeks apart. My father died first; and then my Mother. I have never washed the quilt from her bed....when I am feeling blue; I grab that quilt and wrap up in it; and feel her essence...lovely feeling! As the view from your Father's world(s). I love you my lovely friend; long time now sense the Chronicle!
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  • Regina DePace Thanks for sharing
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  • Susan Louth I love that man through and through. Forever in my heart. Thanks for sharing Rudy. xo
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  • Cindy Fontana Beautify said. Thank you Rudy for sharing a moment in time . God Bless !
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  • Karen Shields The picture is wonderful. Thanks for sharing, Rudy.
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  • Katia Sol-church Such a touching moment to share Rudy.
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  • Marykay Mills My mother passed away in the winter also. I remember being kinda surprised when spring came and the peonies she loved so much bloomed anyway.
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  • Lisa Scott-Hatter I seem to lose those I love in the fall and true to course kissed my dad October two years ago I always hated the cold so the fall for me is a foreshadow if the dark to come
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  • Rudy Nyhoff It's the post that is most meaningful to me (after all, I'm expressing a deep feeling), but coming in a photo-finish second, are the comments elicited by my words. They touch the soul and are, without doubt, the reason I love "social" media, for we are ALL caring and compassionate beings. It girds us and connects us. What a miraculous glue. 
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  • Loyd Dillon Thank you, Rudy, for so touchingly reminding us of what is truly important in our-oh-so-brief time on this planet.
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  • Debbie Hernandez Beautiful Rudy
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  • Harriet C. Brantley You were an all time loving and giving son. Memories are so special.
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    Dear Katia,

    I am hurting for you and for what I have done to you. It was not deliberate. I wanted to help but as this day has demonstrated, I can be insensitive and unresponsive to reason and appropriate action. For this increased anxiety that I have brought down on you, I ask your forgiveness.

    Our friendship over the few months I have known you has been a special gift. It is something to treasure and it is my sincere hope that you move through this immense emotional pain and that we can maintain it.

    Sincerely and In Loving Humankindness,
    rudy


    Great end-of-the-year gathering at Vicky and Kristen Tosh-Morelli's home in Newark for the choir. Good times and good foot. They're just great people.